This guest post comes to us via the smart, home-owning Liz of Being Geek Chic fame. She writes about apps, technology, life and The Hunger Games on the regular - stop over and say hi!
We’ve all watched the home shows, which make buying a home look like choosing a pair of jeans: you try on a bunch and one will be “just the right fit” for you. It’s not a huge surprise that TV oversimplifies the process, but it also gives you false expectations. When you’re buying a house, these are the questions to ask yourself to find a home you love. (Even if it’s not love at first sight.)
The first question to seriously ask yourself is: why do I want to buy a house?
At first, I really wanted to have complete control over my place. I felt I was old enough to make decisions about paint and shelves and art. My landlords were always nice, but every single one had their own quirks and working through them felt laborious to me.
I also wanted to be able to control my living costs. My favorite apartment ever was located near the river in Minneapolis, but the rent went up by at least $100 every year. After a few years, it was getting unaffordable and unsustainable. These days, I know my monthly mortgage payment is always going to be the same.
The second big question: how long do I want to live here?
If you’re looking for a place to hunker down for the rest of your life, then you want to have your changing lifestyle in mind. The things you want and need in a place at 25 are probably going to be drastically different from what you need at 45. I’ve learned this lesson the hard way, because I currently live in a townhouse and while I loved not having to mow a lawn for the first four years, these days all I can think about is a hammock and a yard.
Now, you need to start thinking about the money.
Before taking the step of choosing a realtor and meeting with a finance expert, take a hard look at whether you are ready for the financial commitment of owning a home. When you own a home, you also own its problems. I still love the freedom of making choices about my home, but a lot of home ownership isn’t about choices - it’s “that’s broken and needs fixing.” A broken washing machine is my problem and there isn’t a landlord I can call to fix it.
When it comes to the money, here are some things to just accept and move on with:
* You can afford what you can afford.
* You don’t want to be house poor.
* You can save money to change paint, flooring and light fixtures in time. You don’t have to do it all right away.
* The housing crash taught a lot of Americans a really tough lesson, but it’s worth repeating: you shouldn’t buy a house to make money. Instead, buy it because you want something to call your own, to put a roof over your head and make a warm nest for yourself and the people you love. In the end, you’ll never regret having a place to watch movies with your favorite people.
Now you’re ready to find the place to watch those movies!
Tomorrow, lists and deal breakers! How many of you own a home? Any advice/resources to share?
photo by Sarah Natsumi, for sale here