Monday, November 2, 2009

It's All Good. No, Really. *All* of It.

Hey guys? I'd like to propose taking a break.

Let's take a moment away:
from poking our stomachs rounded with Halloween candy
from examining our cheeks chapped by November air
from glaring at darkened stubble that's poking through tights


Let's cut ourselves a bit of slack, shall we?
Let's remember that every blessed inch of us?
It's pretty damn cute.
Those rounded bits? The freckles? The glasses?
There are people in our lives that love those bits that make us different.


There are people that we stand next to at the bus stop who think
"What I would give for that nose!"
And your office mate told me yesterday that
she actively fantisizes about having ankles like yours.


As for me, I'm trying to call a truce.
With my blond eyelashes that rim deep set eyes,
my child-birthing hips, my destined-for-wattle neckline and
a head that requires XXL everything. My blond eyelashes
were passed down through generations of pale Scandinavians
and I can work those hips in a blush-inducing way. I'm also
choosing to believe that my giant head is a by product of
my giant brain.


So you'll have to pardon me for waxing cliched
and telling you that what makes us different makes us
the gorgeous dumplings that we are.
And that it's all good. And I mean that. It's alllll good.

What makes you different?
What makes you gorgeous?

34 comments:

Magatha-May said...

Well said sweetheart. I think I'll send this on as a link to all my ladies!

Sal said...

Amen.

Amy said...

First time coming to this blog: what an exellent first post of yours to read! Beautiful pictures, beautiful words <3

Erin said...

I have a freckle on the end of my nose that I used to hate. But the hubs says he thinks it's cute.

I've never liked the fact that my teeth crossed in the front, but one of my best friends told me I have one of the world's best smiles.

I've been self-conscious about my poochy tum, but in a spin class the instructor told me I have great legs.

It's all a matter of perception. You're right. We should cut ourselves a break.

Vixel said...

Wonderful post, and beautifully-timed for me! :)

Anne (in Reno) said...

What an adorable post! I can't help looking at my poochy tum in the mirror in yoga class but now I also notice my looong legs and nice broad shoulders. It's all good, we just can't let ourselves forget that.

lindsey said...

perfection :)

Kathleen L. said...

It's always so amazing to wake up, click on blogger and immediately see a post from you. And with posts like this I can honestly say that I love waking up to you. ;D
Amazing post again. Makes me want to kiss my freckled shoulders and dance for a while.

Sarah Von said...

Awww! Thanks guys! Sometimes I write posts to clear my own head and set myself straight. This was another brain child from my 'case of the uglies' last week :)

Nahl said...

What a sweet post to read. =)
I'm loving my teeny height! It really does set me apart.

Sherin said...

Amazing post. Its so well written adn reading it definitely made my day.

Danielle said...

Thanks so much for this post - I really needed it today. I love all the pictures of beautiful women, especially the one of the gorgeous girl with braces. I just got my braces off at 22, and I thought they were adorable - and had no problem finding guys who thought the same :)

Vanessa said...

This is such a wonderful post. I love it. I was actually just near-breakdown over noticing one of skirts is a little more snug than it was last time I put it on, and then I happened to read this. :)

Isisingonthecake said...

I was having a good day... now I'm having a GREAT day, thanks to your post! I spent my whole life wishing I were not the whitest person in the universe, and wishing I "fit in" better, and wishing I weren't so curvy, etc, etc, etc...
But yesterday, a girl whom I actively disliked in high school wrote a blog post about how much she loves redheads for being photogenic and different and tagged me in it... and in the past month, thanks to the drogas i have to take, i've lost 10 pounds and now i appreciate my lost curves so much more... and I LOVE my freckles!
thank you, Sarah Von! You're my favorite person today!

Renee said...

this made my day, thank you! :)

Anna said...

thank you so much for this. i love you. : )

Luinae said...

I'll say it:

My skin was made so pale so it would contrast beautifully with my dark hair. My dark and unruly brows give a youthful appearence to my face and my hips sway gently when I walk.

Pony said...

Oh, you darling gal!

I too have the childbirthing hips - but I love them, because it means I can put on a tight 50's wiggle dress and pretend that I'm Sugar in Some Like It Hot.

I have - probably permanent - freckles from years spent in the Australian sunshine as a child.

And I have funny wrists and feet from at least a decade of playing music and taking ballet. But that gave me ability and grace.

Yay for upsides!!

x

Tash said...

I love you Sarah Von!

Lynda G. said...

A sweet and adorable post - JUST LIKE YOU. :D

Dee said...

I have a nose that looks big from the front, but it looks upturned and delicate from the side. And I love my hourglass shape and my waist, even if sometimes it frustrates me.

Sarah Von said...

Oh you sweeties! Group hug! ;D

Whitters said...

made my day :)

Erimentha said...

gorgeous post!
what makes me different? my shit load of freckles!
haha

i love your blog!
it's so cool!

Lady Smaggle said...

OH MY GOD! MORE in common... My head requires XXL everything too! So it's clearly not just the nose thing? I'm wondering if two of our parents had an affair somewhere along the way...

Alright... I'm going to forgive my short legs, my massive head and my spare tire.

Fibo said...

how did you learn to be so positive? I love that your blog is called 'yes and yes' because it's just so gosh damn glass half full. Did you just have a moment of complete revelation and decide to be positive from that point on? I'm trying to be more positive these days and to quit sweating the small stuff, I'm glad I've found your blog, I think you're going to be my mentor from now on *nods* yes I think so.

Amélie said...

I have no breasts whatsoever, but then I get to wear my colourful, polka-dotted, quintessentially summery bikini tops year-round under my clothes!

I also have huge calves, but then I swim faster than anyone I know ; I have a short torso but very long legs ; round hips but a small waist. So yes, I do believe it's all good! ;)

Heidi Rose said...

Aw, thank you.

:: c h r i s t i n a :: said...

Fabulous post. Thank you!

Katie said...

Thanks for this you made me smile :D

x

April said...

such a great post. thanks for the reminder. all of those photos are great, too.

(my word verification is "cistr")

Marie said...

I have a large mole on my leg that I always hated and was determined to have removed. then in college a boy told me it was sexy and I no longer want it removed.

Mollie said...

ha big head, blonde eyelashes, and child birthing hips.. describes my issues too. i look like a lollipop. but at least i'm not alone :)

Mama Bird said...

My stretch marks!

which are a gift from my baby boy! <3